It’s ironic, but true. I heard this observation from a speaker at the 2007 March for Life in Washington DC. We who support life should want to promote the good choices which help people live life well. Of course, we can never consider abortion a good choice. However, it’s important to remember (especially when we get angry about the horror stories or depressed about the death stats) that the majority of women contemplating abortion actually think that there’s nothing else they can do and so abortion is probably the best option.
But think about it for a minute… Most women don’t WANT to kill their babies because most women, naturally, WANT to be mothers. Why, we’re mothers from birth- even the littlest girl instinctively knows what to do with a baby doll! I think that the truest, deepest desire of every woman’s heart is to be mother. For, this is how we love and are loved, by giving ourselves to another and in turn bringing life into the world
As a result of all this, the choice for or against abortion is crucial for the woman (as well as for the little life within her). This decision can have huge repercussions in a woman’s life. For, we women opt for abortion (or contraceptives for that matter) we will actually be rejecting motherhood, therefore unwittingly denying our own hearts the true love they crave.
But…the girl in a messy situation, she may have loved her baby dolls, she may have dreamed of having a home of her own and children of her own…but, there’s pressure from her boyfriend, her parents, her peers. There are the financial difficulties. And of course, the shame and the embarrassment of going back to school…pregnant. She feels utterly trapped and helpless. And inside, her hearts sinks: “Do I even have a choice but to…?” She asks. And amidst this unbearable stress, in this seemingly inescapable spot, what can she do? Desperate, she gropes about for a way out, often stumbling blindly into a choice she will later regret..
This girl is our classmate, our neighbor, our roommate. Our response? Compassion…
–Allannah Karas